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Thursday, June 26, 2008

Death in South Africa

Our last day in Bohklokong township was a Friday. As we drove along, we noticed many white tents that were being erected along the sides of the road. I was surprised to learn that funerals are only held one day a week and that they last an entire day and well into the night. A great deal of money is spent on food as everyone comes together for the funeral. I thought this was interesting because in America, you can have a funeral pretty much any day of the week, plus a visitation. And that many folks will come to the visitation, but not everyone will come (again) to the funeral.

I bring up this topic of death, because I found out (through Facebook, ironic, isn't it?) that one of the church members of Open Bible, Dibuseng, has passed away. Dibuseng was only twenty eight and left behind a four month old child. I do not know what caused her death. I did not get the opportunity to meet her. My heart is heavy for her family and friends, and especially her child. It is difficult to be hopelessly sad, however, because I will see my sister in Christ, Dibuseng, in heaven.

So. I have never been to a South African funeral. But I do recall how we were sent on our way on the last tent revival service. And I am sure that Dibuseng's arrival in heaven was full of more joy and love and celebration; and that she is no longer sick or hurting; but is with Jesus. And no matter what I am doing tomorrow, my South African brothers and sisters will not be far from my heart or mind.

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